00:00 Praise Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Brothers and sisters, today the power of Christ Daily 24 October 2015. A Saturday. How to make your wife love, submit and respect you.

00:14 Love, submit and respect you. I’m sure many men are interested in this because many husbands are interested in this, because many wives don’t respect them. Many wives don’t submit to them.

00:24 Many wives don’t love them. Even so, there are reasons for this and how to do this. Christ has written it down.

00:32 You see, everything in the Bible is settled, brothers and sisters. There’s nothing undone here. When God created, there’s like some manufacturer creates a car, he puts a car manual.

00:43 The Bible is a manual for living, for our safety, for our life, good life. Now, before that, let’s see what God is saying. Jesus Christ is saying regarding wives, first wives.

00:54 You all listen to this because the world has confused many of you by feminism. How to submit? I cannot submit. So a person, a girl who married with love, Love for the husband, love for the husband, loving the wife.

01:08 They married together. Like what happened to me, my wife. We married, but eventually, step by step, over the years, things went so wrong because the devil came to steal, kill and destroy.

01:19 And our own hearts are treacherously wicked. And we let our heart take control. And one by one, the devil stole.

01:26 Using that tempts us, tempts our heart. We follow our heart and we mess up. And sometimes the women think, how to submit, how to submit.

01:34 Cannot submit. In the name of Jesus Christ. You can submit.

01:38 That’s not the issue here. The issue here is you have to renew in the spirit of your mind. You are renewed in the spirit of mind that this is Jesus Christ, what he says.

01:48 Ephesians 5, 22, 24. Ephesians 5, 22,. 24.

01:53 I’m reading from the amplified version. Wives, be subject to your own husbands as a service to the Lord. As a service to the Lord.

02:04 So you begin to meditate on this. You are serving the Lord by submitting to your husband. But of course you are not going to do sin if the husband tells you to do wrong things, keep on getting money from you to buy booze and getting drunk or going
to the karaoke or whatever you don’t give, you cannot give because it is not a service to the Lord.

02:23 If the husband tells you to lie and cheat and all you cannot do because it’s not a service of the Lord. In fact, you are getting the Lord angry, actually angry, because you are willfully sinning. Now, if your husband wants you to fill up a bank
form, frauding the details and the form so you can get a big loan or whatever.

02:41 Don’t do it. Don’t do wrong. Your husband asks you to do wrong.

02:44 Cannot. That is not from God, that is from the devil. So you submit to your husband as a service to the Lord.

02:52 Now if you begin to meditate on this word. I submit to my husband as a service to the Lord. Even though there’s no love in the marriage for some reason or other, even though you can’t unable to respect the then respect the husband, you begin to
first submit to the husband as a service to the Lord.

03:10 As you begin to have Whenever you’re doing something, you’re serving the Lord, you’re serving the Lord, you begin to meditate on the scripture step by step. The scripture, the word of God will change you and you will happen for the husband. 4:23 for
the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is head of the church himself, being the saviour of the body.

03:29 Now for the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is head of the church himself, being the Savior of the body. So your body, your husband is providing for it, nurturing for it and all. Of course, I’m not dealing with those of you who have
unbelieving husbands, sinful husbands like I was.

03:47 We’re not talking about that. We’re talking about follower of Christ married in the Lord. The husband that is not married in the Lord.

03:56 If he’s trying to take care of you, he’s not doing all this adultery and all this nonsense that I did, then you will of course keep the marriage. Jesus says, if you have unbelieving husband, keep the marriage. Because the unbelieving husband has
been sanctified, separated for salvation and your children also separated for salvation.

04:17 So don’t worry about it. Your children will be sanctified, so you and your household will be saved. That’s his promise.

04:22 If you believe in Jesus Christ and you believe in him to save the household. Okay, so there’s another topic I’ve talked about earlier. We can come back another time.

04:31 24 but as a church is subject to Christ, you subject yourself to your husband as a church is subject to Christ also. Also wives should be subject to their husbands in everything, respecting both their position as protector and their responsibility
to God as head of the house. They have a responsibility.

04:50 In fact, the responsibility on the husbands are so many times, many things far, far greater than that of the wife, your wife. The wife is only supposed to submit to the husband, submit the husband and that’s it. So now then God will do something.

05:05 Jesus does something. I’ve given an example before when we have come to the Lord, my wife has come to the Lord and my children are growing up and one day I’m working. We are so tied up, the whole family is so busy.

05:17 I was so busy in ministry and then they. So one day I got up on Saturday and God says, oh no, I think got up Tuesday or Wednesday and God said Saturday to take them to Melaka Club. There’s a little bit of chalet there to stay there and a holiday for
two days or whatever.

05:37 So I got up and called all of them and said, Jesus is telling me to do this, so we’ll go this weekend. And at that time I can see my wife and my elder girls having eye contact and slight smile. Then finally when I found out, it seems that they told
me that they want a break.

05:54 My wife told me the children need a break and all. And I didn’t bother. But what happened? Because she submitted herself and she looked unto Christ for the solution.

06:03 Christ then puts into the husband a God fearing man. A God fearing man. It will happen.

06:08 Otherwise you just still go to your husband of your soul and he’ll do something. Titus 2:4 5. So that they may encourage the young women.

06:16 Now older women encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be self controlled, chaste. This I am reading from Catholic edition. Chaste.

06:26 Good managers of the household kind, being submissive to their husbands so that the word of God may not be discredited. Some versions will say, blasphemed, tarnished, blackened. If you don’t do this, wives, sisters in Christ, I’m telling you, you
are tarnishing the blackening the name of God.

06:46 You’re blackening the word of God, which is Jesus Christ. So what? Love your husband. Self control, everything chaste.

06:54 Chase me. You’re holy. Your conduct is changed.

06:56 Your speech is chaste. Holy speech, good speech. Good managers of the household.

07:03 Many women fail in this reason is maybe their mothers didn’t teach them or they were spoiled in the house or whatever, pampered, you know. And so they cannot be good managers. But you can learn.

07:13 This is not the issue. You can learn. But sometimes after many years, these women, older women, I still see some of them real bad managers of the household.

07:20 Why? And they get into debt. They cannot manage their house within the budget given and they cannot do a full thing. They think they’re doing so much.

07:29 And then you go and see, a godly wife will be doing tenfolds More than these women. And you find that they are doing this bad manger because sometimes they are lazy. So there is a spiritual problem here.

07:41 They are against Christ. If you are lazy and all that you are against Christ. We have to endure, overcome, kind, submissive to their own husbands, so that the Word of God is not tarnished and blackened.

07:54 Ephesians 5:33. Nevertheless, let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself. And let the wife see that she respects her husband.

08:04 Many wives I see don’t respect the husband in public, you know, in front of me, as I have seen. If it’s the congregation member, I have to correct them. You know this is nonsense.

08:13 Respect your husband. God says so. Brothers and sisters, now the question today is because now only eight minutes, you see, Now I got another seven minutes or so to do this.

08:23 Now, brothers and sisters, how to make your brothers, how to make your wife love, submit and respect you? Because God said the wife must respect. Some wives cannot respect because the husbands also doing rubbish as so called Christian husband. But
they’re doing rubbish.

08:38 Maybe they don’t know this word. Maybe they cannot overcome. Cannot overcome is a nonsense thing.

08:43 I’ve seen theological teaching, you know, you must do this, you must do that, you must do the big writing, essay after essay. But nobody tells you how you want to do this. How you going to do this is simple.

08:54 Look at the Word of God. Meditate on the Word of God as if you are seeing the Word of God in the mirror. And step by step the Word of God will change you.

09:02 Because you want to submit to Christ. If you think you know something, if you know something, you do not know anything as yet. You ought to know.

09:04 If you think you are something when you are nothing, you are deceiving yourself. Humble yourself, brothers. This award of God now how now let’s read Ephesians 5:25.

09:19 Yes, the secret is here. Ephesians 5:25. So, wives, I’m sure you’re also interested how he’s going to do this to you, right? Husbands, love your wives.

09:29 Just as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for her, that he might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the Word, that he might present her to himself, a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but
that she should be holy and without blemish. Without blemish means blameless. Includes blameless.

09:53 So husbands ought to love. 28. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies.

10:00 He loves his wife. He who Loves his wife, loves himself. 29.

10:05 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. Now this whole thing, Jesus says what he did for the church, right? Husband, love your wife. Just as Christ also loved the church and gave himself
up.

10:22 First rule is give yourself up for her. Not your friends come first. Your work comes first.

10:29 Everything else in the world, your mother, your mother comes first. Your father comes first. Your grandfather comes first.

10:35 Your grandmother comes first. No, gave himself over. She comes first.

10:39 Full stop. She comes first. Your wife comes first.

10:42 Because for Jesus, he gave himself up for the Church. Who’s the church? The body of Christ. Who’s the body of Christ? We are the body of Christ.

10:51 The followers of Christ are the body of Christ. 2 that he might sanctify and cleanse us. Now we remember last word, just as the Lord does the church.

11:00 So we just do as the Lord does for the church, we do for our wives, and the thing will be fantastic marriage. And I did this because I didn’t really know very much of this scripture. But I knew I had to teach my wife certain things.

11:16 I will first give myself. So my wife wants me or needs me back in the house. I take my body and come back finished.

11:22 Because he gave himself for her. I will give myself for my wife first. That’s the order.

11:28 That’s the command. That is my sanctify and cleanse her. So I have to sanctify, separate my wife.

11:34 He separated. Jesus Christ separated the church for himself. I must separate my wife for myself.

11:40 You must separate your wife for yourself and cleanse her. How to cleanse her? With the washing of water by the Word. There is enough evidence now.

11:48 When good words are spoken to water, water suddenly frozen, they make into crystals. They form crystals, beautiful crystals, bad words, hard rock music, heavy rock and all this rubbish going on. The water crystals become very dark and dirty and
misshaped no shape and becomes poison.

12:06 It is the fact that 90% of our brains is water. So when it says renewing in the spirit of your mind. Now the information or the fact in the mind, in the memory, in the brain is in the spirit plane.

12:20 It’s not physical. You can’t hold it, you cannot taste it. It’s in the spiritual plane, the memory, the thoughts, the words, the facts, the information.

12:31 So 90% water. So washing of the water, washing of water. So God.

12:37 This also could mean washing. It also means for me, it gets settled. When you begin to speak the good words of God into her.

12:45 It’s cleansing the water first water in the mind is cleansing and the brain 10% only receives the Word. And spiritually, the words are now gone and stuck inside there, embedded there. The words of God are there and the mind.

12:59 Now memory inside the water is all words of God now. Washing of the water by the word. That means you have to teach your wife words of God.

13:07 Teach her when she’s wrong the word of God, not teach her. I don’t like this. I don’t like that.

13:11 I’m not happy with nonsense. What is Jesus saying? What is the word of God saying? You have to use the word of God now. He might present her to himself.

13:21 So if you don’t use the word of God, it’s not going to work. If you don’t teach her the word of God, it’s not going to work. But if you have a log in your own eye and you see the fault, the speck in your wife’s eye and you try to tell her it’s not
going to work, you first take the log out of oi.

13:36 You change, wash your water for yourself with the Word and the word of God and you change as you change and you begin to correct her and teach her the marriage. Fantastic. I’m telling you, it has happened to me and my family and my wife and me.

13:51 It is fantastic marriage. Never believed it could be. It couldn’t.

13:54 It’s even far more, far, far, far more fantastic, beautiful, wonderful than when I first married her. When we were first married, yes, we loved each other very much. But this is something else, so spiritual, so different.

14:10 I cannot explain brother, but you go and do this. Brother. Sister, you go and try this now.

14:15 He might present to himself a glorious church not without spot of wrinkles. So you don’t want your wife to have false. You don’t want your wife, her conduct to be spotless, without wrinkle, without nonsense, her conduct, her spirit, her words, her
spoken words, how she countenance, how her face changes or whatever.

14:34 She is not putting sour face when you come back from work. No sour face there. It’s a loving face and holy and without blemish.

14:42 Without blemish, without spot and without. Oh, without blemish. Without blameless.

14:48 But her conduct is holy and without blame. No blame. Brothers, if your wife is having a lot of blame to her that you God always holds the husband accountable.

14:58 First you, you, you. I, I, I. Brother and sister, this is a fantastic thing. Please follow Ephesians 5:25, 29 and begin to wash of washing of the water by the Word.

15:11 But first humble yourself. Read the Word. You must know the Word of God first, brother.

15:16 If you don’t know the Word of God first, how are you going to use which word? Which appropriate word of God for that particular issue? To washing of the water by the Word over your wife, as Christ has done over the church, just as the Lord does the
church. We must do. And I have done this by God’s mercy.

15:35 I still do this whenever she sit with her or talk to her. It’s all ongoing, day and night. Whenever it happens casually is stopped.

15:45 Because now both of us are older than the Lord, we know to humble more. Grace. Grace comes all that.

15:53 Brothers and sisters, this is how love, submit and respect. She will love and submit to you and respect you, because there are things in you to love, submit and respect. Because Jesus will do it in her for you and for her, for the whole family.

15:53 Brothers and sisters, it’s a wonderful day. Please go get the Scriptures from the moderators and do this in the name of Jesus Christ so theologians cannot settle this. You have to take the Word of God and begin to in the name of Jesus Christ, I
command my heart and mind to obey Ephesians 5:25, 29 to teach my wife to First I take up my lock from my own eyes.

16:32 Before I correct anybody, I see whether there is a big lock in my eye. Brothers and sisters, do this and you will see your life change. Sisters, do what God told you to do.

16:41 In the name of Jesus Christ. Your life will change. Amen.