00:01 Praise Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Brothers and sisters, today is the power of Christ. Daily 13th of September. Oh, thank Jesus Christ.

00:10 Examine yourself, kindness and wives. Examine yourself for kindness and wives. Today Sunday.

00:18 Now, one of the things yesterday we are talking about is patience. Now before that, thank you and grateful to all of you who are praying for health and for us in the haze matter. Brothers and sisters, I’m improving,
my family is improving in health.

00:35 Yesterday was very bad for me. You know what happens actually? The whole day, whole night will have temperature, I’ll have temperature because the lungs have inflamed, the sinus area is all inflamed and clogged up
and paining. Eyes will be hurting, headache all the time, migraine.

00:53 And then because we are breathing in this stuff and it’s polluting the whole body and body blood all become acidic and all that. But at the same time, by mercy of God, when all this happening, God will remind me all
things work for the good of those who love God and are the called according to his purpose. All things work for the good.

01:14 So I say it will work for the good. Because I have no control over this haste. It will work for the good, something God will do.

01:20 And again this morning I get up, I am feeling much better. I can take a better breath and the headache is gone, temperature is gone. I didn’t take any medicine, thank Jesus, because if I needed it, I would have
taken it.

01:33 I would have taken a painkiller or headache pill or a fever pill. But I just endured by God’s mercy. But if I couldn’t, if it’s too much, then I would take.

01:43 I will not. I’m not going to say I’m not taking any of this medicine we’ll take. But brothers and sisters, you must be led by the spirit of God.

01:49 What you believe, whatever you do not in faith is sin. God says so we will do everything in faith. So I thank you all again.

01:57 I am very grateful, brothers and sisters. I am able to do this work daily. Now yesterday we are talking about patience.

02:03 And we know patience is actually the definition by God’s definition is we can only get his promises when we endure in patience, in patience. So for instance, he told us that by stripes we are healed. So patience.

02:22 Now there are people sadly will intervene in the patience. They won’t be patient, they will do something and they actually delay the promises from coming out to manifest. Therefore, even in Abraham’s case, suddenly
Asara decided the wife.

02:40 I’ll give you this, that time all. No, one man, one wife rule. That time there’s no Ten Commandments yet, Remember, there’s no Ten Commandments yet.

02:49 So the natural laws were going on there. So Sarah said, look, since God said, you’ll be a father to many nations, then he decided, I’ll give you this maid servant and you sleep with her and get a child. Hagar.

03:07 Hagar is a maidservant. And that caused a lot of problems. That caused a delay, delay in the promise of God manifesting.

03:18 So there was a delay, but finally he endured. Then he realized there is some issue here. Abraham just endured patiently and it came to pass.

03:26 We have to endure patiently. We don’t intervene. We don’t intervene in the work of God.

03:33 We don’t. Oh, Sarah was saying, look, he promised you that you will have a son and you will be the father of many nations. And then quickly, okay, why don’t you take this maidservant and have a child from her?
Because I am barren now.

03:50 See the problem, brothers and sisters? So we too are like this. We too suddenly, wait, wait, wait. We cannot ready.

03:56 And then we are impatient. And then we’ll do something and then we will damage ourselves. We end up delaying the work of God, the manifestation of the promises.

04:08 Thank Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Now remember, mercies are new every morning. I get up this morning.

04:13 I know mercies are new every morning. So I’m encouraging you, I am encouraging you to know this Word of God. Mercies are new, whatever headache, this love, fever, all kinds of fever, on and on, lung pain or
whatever.

04:28 Remember, mercies are new every morning is promised. So now, today’s title, I say kindness and wives. I had to put that there because the number of things I know, I know sisters in Christ, when they become born
again, they know Jesus Christ.

04:44 Now they know the work of God. They really don’t know fully, but they begin to think they know. And the rule for us is if you think you know something, you do not know as you ought to know, as yet you do not know as
you should.

04:56 You don’t know the whole story. But many sisters make this mistake because they are anxious for their husband and the children to be saved. And they begin to do things and say things and actually make it worse.

05:11 So what is God’s word on this? God’s word on this is simple. Now today I’m using word kindness there because it’s one of the fruits of the spirit. Fruit, one of the.

05:21 One of the flavor of the fruit of the spirit, of Holy Spirit. One of the flavor, one of the shapes. Kindness is one of the flavor.

05:28 Love, joy, Peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness. You see, some fruits can be sweet and yet sour. You know, there are different shades, but this fruit of the Holy Spirit got so many flavors.

05:40 One is kindness. Today we talk about kindness. So what is God saying about our sisters? Any sister, you’re listening to me.

05:50 I’ve seen this repeatedly. I tell them, don’t go and say things, please let it go. Belief tries.

05:56 He said, you and your household will be saved because you believe Jesus Christ. Don’t listen, you know, I so sad. And then they’ll go and do something at the back there.

06:06 And then finally, sometimes they get chased out of the house or some. Some sisters have been told, get out. Why? Because they do not follow the word of God.

06:17 They do not keep to the word of God. They do not believe. That means they do not believe what Jesus Christ has said in the Bible.

06:24 And that means their heart, what is the problem? Their heart doesn’t believe. Their heart wants their husband saved like yesterday. They want their children saved like yesterday.

06:34 So they begin to intervene and do this and do that and everything else. End result. I also made mistakes like this.

06:42 So after that, because I made mistakes like this, then I know it doesn’t work. I keep telling them, please sister, don’t, don’t, don’t let it go. God promise.

06:49 We wait on the promise. But no, they won’t do. So what they some of them won’t do.

06:53 And they get in trouble. Those sisters of mine here who are unmarried learn from here also. So finally, when you’re married, you know what you have to do.

07:03 Now here, first Peter 3, one says, you see, in the same way, you, wives should be willing to serve your husbands. Then even those who have refused to accept God’s teaching. I’m taking from the easy reader, so it’s
not completely the shade of meaning may not be as what original Bible says, but it’s what the new English version, so people begin to understand, can understand.

07:12 Then even those who have refused to accept God’s teaching, you serve them, you submit to them, you care for them. So even though they don’t submit to God’s teaching, will be persuaded to believe because of the way
you live, because of your conduct. The actual translation is because of your conduct, you will not need to say anything.

07:48 The other translation says, because of your conduct, your chaste conduct, your holy conduct, without a word they may be won over. That means God telling, don’t talk, don’t talk. Without a word, they may be won over,
but have good conduct, have chaste conduct, have holy conduct.

08:09 That’s what God is telling. But you know what some of our sisters do? They won’t listen. They’ll go and say things because they cannot control their heart.

08:18 There’s no self control. Because the husband doing something. No, they’ll say something because they want the husband to be saved.

08:24 Then they will talk about scripture to the husband. Then they may sing some songs loudly, hoping the song will go in there. Then they will try to arrange the husband to suddenly meet me or something.

08:35 Because they believe by meeting me they will all be saved. What sisters? It’s God who saves. God who saves now.

08:44 But God is telling in 1 Peter 3:1 that 1. They want to do what God said. Keep quiet, quick to hear, slow to speak, without a word.

08:54 Just have the right conduct. Have the right conduct. So now what conduct is this? Now let’s see this.

09:01 In Proverbs 31, 26, 29, 26. Proverbs 31, 26, she opens her mouth with wisdom. Sister, I’m talking to you, please.

09:16 When your mouth is open, it must open with wisdom. Brother, I’m talking to you. Although this is written to the sisters, it applies to me too.

09:24 When my mouth opens, it must open with wisdom. Wisdom of God, not worldly wisdom. Wisdom of God.

09:31 And wisdom of God comes from speaking the word of God, speaking the scriptures. Wisdom. You open your mouth, wisdom.

09:39 Wherever, where you’re working, where you are, you will have a great life. Because you will not simply stop talk. You will before.

09:47 When you open your mouth, there’s wisdom coming out. You’re thinking of things, you’re meditating on issues. And when you have wisdom coming out, wisdom of God, people be drawn to you.

09:58 So he’s talking to the wife. Here are these specifically. Proverbs 31 is to the wife, she opens her mouth.

10:04 Wisdom. So sister, I ask you today, when you open your mouth in your house, because yes, you are anxious. Anxiety is sin.

10:14 You are anxious for your husband to be saved. But anxiety is sin. And that’s causing delay in your husband to be saved.

10:21 When you open your mouth, is your mouth opening with wisdom of God. 2. And in her tongue is the law of kindness.

10:31 Law of kindness. One of the flavour of the fruit of the Holy Spirit is kindness. In her tongue is a law of kindness.

10:38 So when you are speaking the law that controls your tongue, that means me, me, me. I’m talking to myself now. Right now I’m talking to Kristilu.

10:47 You listen when you speak. When your law of tongue, it must be kindness, kindness. That applies to all of us.

10:53 Kindness. Then goes on to 27. She looks well into the ways of a household and doesn’t be idle and all that.

11:02 28. Her children rise up and call her blessed. Her husband also, he praises her and says, many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellence them all.

11:13 Meaning, you know what? There are many women who are doing well, but you are the most excellent. Now you have to aspire to be theirs. Not every day thinking they are saved or not.

11:26 Oh, Lord, you will save them. Oh Lord, you will save them. He said he will save them, isn’t it? He said that you believe and you and your household will be saved.

11:35 And. And there’s a segment I’ve taught there, the household sake. Now, I’ve made this mistake before.

11:41 My son also, I’ll keep on telling things to him so that I’m concerned. Oh, you’re doing something wrong. He’s doing something wrong.

11:48 And finally God taught me a lesson. I said, let it go. Let it go.

11:52 Why? Actually, by me doing some of these things, saying some things, I’m actually making things worse. So I let it go. Why? I’m a human being.

12:04 I wiped up. I wiped up to know that he said he will save him. So I said, thank you, Lord Jesus, and let it go.

12:12 Now, the issue here today is what is kindness? Romans 2:4. Romans 2. Patience.

12:21 We already know patience is enduring, just doing nothing, not interfering with God’s promise. Interfering to make God’s promise come true, come to manifest. That is impatience.

12:32 We leave it, we continue doing our work, we live our life. And patience will come. God’s promises will come, will exhibit, will manifest.

12:41 Here in Romans 2:4, it says, don’t you know? Are you ignorant? Are you dumb? That means, are you dumb? God’s kindness leads you to repentance. God’s kindness leads you to repentance. Now, sisters, is your kindness
in your house will lead your husband and your children to repentance.

13:05 Because God’s kindness leads us to repentance. Means in Romans 2:4. It’s also the same thing in my household.

13:11 It’s my kindness to my son will lead him to repentance. Now, next thing. But because we may be kind and we keep telling things, but they already got problems because they do not know Christ.

13:25 And we keep telling things. Actually, the devil takes that and provokes the other person, provokes my son or provokes your husband or something. So now.

13:36 So what is the meaning? The meaning of world definition is this. It is simply generous, friendly and considerate. Now, he doesn’t say anything for us.

13:45 Generous, friendly, and concentrated now. But the Bible meaning is so many meanings. Finally I had to conclude this because it’s written in Hebrew and written in Greek and so many shades of meanings.

14:00 So finally I put in a few lines here and we pray that will make you understand. Kindness is a sincere desire and not any desire. Sincere desire for the happiness of others.

14:15 Kindness is the inner feeling created by the Holy Spirit that causes us to be sensitive to the needs of others. Needs, you know, whether physical, emotional or spiritual. So Bible meaning is this not complete? I
have just collected it to put together so we can get some understanding out of this.

14:36 Kindness is a sincere desire for the happiness of others. So when you see going to his congregation today, you went to church, meeting them, you are looking at somebody, there must be a sincere desire in you that to
get are they happy. You see somebody not there, you’re trying to settle them, Whether you’re having a discussion or giving something they may need, something you’re trying to do.

14:57 It’s a sincere desire for the happiness of others. You want others to be happy. You want others to be joyful.

15:03 You don’t want others to be oppressed and depressed. And then it’s the inner feeling created by the Holy Spirit because we can’t have good feelings here other than created by God that causes us to be sensitive to
the needs of others. If you’re not sensitive to the needs of others, whether it’s emotional, whether it’s physical, whether it is material, whether it is spiritual, so you see somebody depressed, spiritual already.

15:29 So you got to deal. If you see somebody emotional issue, not okay, you got to deal. You see somebody physical problem, physical needs, you got to deal.

15:38 Sensitive to the needs. So this is a very good definition. So inner feeling, sensitive to the needs of others.

15:45 So, sister, regarding husband being sensitive to his needs. Ah, sensitive needs. Physical, emotional and spiritual kindness comes out and Jesus will see us through.

15:59 In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray, including wherever we are, the places where we work and all that. Let’s have kindness. Amen.