Children Blaming Parents 1 – Tamil Movie Playing Out in Real Life

00:00 Praise Jesus Christ. Praise Jesus Christ. Indeed. This is a very, very sad situation.

00:06 But God Almighty has warned us in the scriptures, warned us what will happen if we don’t do things in line with the word of God. But it’s a very sad situation, very sad situation. But Jesus Christ has warned us and there’s always a solution in Jesus
Christ.

00:26 On Last Saturday, just 12th October 2024, 12th of October 2024, I was ministering in flats in Kampung Kirichi. There a disciple of Jesus Christ. This sister had known her for some time because I was training her in that by the mercy and grace of
Jesus Christ.

00:55 It was I pastor for her and I was training her in discipleship of Jesus Christ. Over the years she told me that her children are blaming her. When she tried to witness to them, they just blame her.

01:13 Not all. Maybe one or two, the sons especially, they said, you didn’t correct us and that’s how we ended up like this. You didn’t correct us when we were young.

01:27 That’s why we ended up like this. So now the question is, what is the status here? They are grown children, they are all past the 20s. So what does the word of God say? Of course, the word of God says those who are believers of Jesus Christ, first
of all, of course, you have got to cast out devils in his name.

01:51 That is Mark 16:17, which Most Christians do not know or don’t do or they are not told. Okay, that’s one aspect. Bring them up in my ways.

02:02 Jesus Christ command to parents, Christian parents is bring them up in my ways and they will not go far from it. And this too many Christian parents do not do because they do not understand. In fact, they think just taking him to church, taking him
to church is all right.

02:20 But they themselves really do not believe in Jesus Christ. They believe a format, some kind of Christianity, a religious Christianity, which Jesus Christ says, look on and he will spit you out. But later in life, like this sister was doing all that
wrong things, false belief, false church even.

02:43 But finally when she came over a few years ago to earth these two first, when she came, she couldn’t take the correction because there’s correction in Christ. Rebuke. All scripture is for rebuke, correction and edification.

03:02 Edification comes after the rebuke because all the false beliefs have to go, all the sins have to go. You have to recognize the sins and all that. So then she actually went away for a while.

03:15 Then after a while she came back after a few months because she realized there’s no other. What I’m saying is true. Yes, I’m tough.

03:27 Which true servant of God is not tough? I also want to know. A true servant of Jesus Christ is supposed to tell the word of God without compromising the word of God, not adjusting it to suit in fear of man or favour of man. So she came back and she
started following a Jesus Christ disciple and she is actually very rooted now and she goes out to the streets and ministers in the streets with couple of other sisters and now she’s facing this but she’s still joyful because she’s been rooted in
Jesus Christ and she’s still joyful.

04:07 That’s first of all walking in the spirit of the Holy Spirit, you know, walking in the spirit while walking in the spirit, the fruit of spirit, love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humbleness, self control. He’s exhibiting
all that he clings on to Jesus, believes in Jesus Christ, that’s the key. Believing Jesus Christ.

04:28 Not just sing some songs, we need to sing some songs to Jesus Christ. Yes, if it makes you believe more. But it’s believing in Jesus Christ that sets people free.

04:41 So now and of course he’s casting out demons and all that. Mark 16:17 and she believes the authority she has, God. Luke 10:19 Jesus Christ has given her authority over snakes and scorpions and by no means any, anything can hurt her.

04:58 Any power of the devil, any power of the wickedness can hurt her. Nothing. She knows all that she’s exercising and she’s now doing the will of God, will of Jesus Christ.

05:07 She is now going out and reconciling man to God. But now she’s facing this. So then I told her, which I’ve told many before, when I was much younger, not in the Lord Jesus Christ.

05:22 I was very much, I was just a kid. I saw a Tamil movie which showed a mother attending court. Now the son has been caught for some crime and the Tamil movie and the judge finally pronounces sentence and jails a boy, a young man, not 20 something
years old, young man.

05:46 So the mother was crying and went to see the boy before being taken away to jail. He started abusing her in the movie. He’s all in the movie, abusing her, abusing her and saying, you didn’t correct me, therefore I ended up like this, you didn’t
correct me.

06:03 The fact you didn’t, didn’t call me, didn’t punish me, just kept going. But this woman, a single mother, working day and night, trying to just make ends meet, you know, poverty in India at that Time. So same story here.

06:21 You didn’t correct me. They’re telling this sister. So what is the issue here? The issue here? The children have become liars.

06:30 Liars. So why this? I am warning a lot of Tamil parents, Indian, Christian parents. For many years I have been telling about this movie.

06:40 That this will happen. Like if you don’t correct them. But many times parents are afraid of the children.

06:47 They are afraid they will leave the house. If I become too tough, I will leave the house and all that. They are afraid.

06:53 And in that fear they don’t correct them at all. But Jesus Christ said, you have to correct them. So who do you believe? So they broke God’s laws.

07:01 They didn’t follow Jesus Christ. The mouth told me, I believe in Jesus. I believe in Jesus.

07:06 But in doing, they never did that. So what happened next? These children grow up like this. And then the word of God says in the end times they’ll be lovers of themselves, disobedient to parents.

07:20 And now let’s look at this again. A son blaming the mother because of you. Only I am now like this.

07:28 You didn’t correct me. I messed up. But just little God’s sound mind, common sense.

07:40 Okay, now change. If you’re 25, 30 years old, now change. Oh, they’re not talking about that.

07:46 So they are wicked. They only try to blame somebody somewhere. They blame their parents.

07:51 But they never taken responsibility. I told the mother, these fellows will suffer more. Because what you sow, you will reap.

07:59 That’s the word of God. A soul that sinners will surely die. That’s the word of God.

08:00 A soul that practicing sin is born of the devil. Especially those who are practicing sin. I say they are Christians.

08:09 They are false Christians. There are fake Christians. They are liars.

08:14 So I told her, fear not, believe in Jesus Christ. Because why? Jesus Christ said, those who believe in him, they and their household shall be saved. Those who love him, he saved a thousand generations.

08:30 So you love Jesus Christ. How do you love Jesus Christ? By obeying the word of God. By doing his will.

08:37 What is his will? Reconciling man to God. So forget about these brothers. First do not bother.

08:44 And get rid of the guilt and condemnation. But first you have to confess. You have to confess to Jesus.

08:49 Yes, Lord. I didn’t bring them up in your ways. I seriously.

08:54 Forgive me, Lord Jesus. Forgive me, Lord Jesus. Show mercy on me, Lord Jesus.

09:01 And he shows mercy because you’re asking for it. At the same time, believe that this boy will be saved. But of course, saved in this finally.

09:11 But in the meantime, as long as they don’t turn, pain will come, problem come. But the devil came to steal, kill and destroy all that will be going on. And the fellow will suffer and suffer and suffer.

09:22 Because they are ungrateful fellows. They don’t want to see how hard this woman has suffered because she was good. As a single parent.

09:29 The husband most of the time not around, he’s doing his own thing. So she was earning whatever, taking care of the children, on and on. They are so ungrateful.

09:40 Don’t see this. They are just willing to blame. They never take responsibilities.

09:44 Anyone not taking responsibility for their sin will perish. First thing, when Jesus points out your sin, yes, I did it. I am wrong.

09:54 That in the heart, not by just mouth. Sincere love from a pure heart, sincere conviction. Only then Jesus can do something for you, because you do not.

10:03 If not, you are a liar. You just pray in church. Okay, I pray, pray, pray, pray, pray, pray.

10:09 Your faith in the prayer is not going to work. Your faith got to be in Jesus. You pray.

10:13 Yes. You need to pray to maybe make your heart understand. Command your heart to believe in Jesus.

10:18 Make me pray. We have the casting out and receiving prayers, all that we have. You have to go and do get to the moderators or go to go to the grace of life and get all that.

10:28 But you must believe in Jesus. It’s nothing to do with how much you pray. So a fellow can pray 10 hours, he will get all the blessings.

10:37 A fellow can’t pray more than one hour. Not well, he gets nothing, is it? No. Believe.

10:43 Believe in me. Believe. So this is a belief.

10:47 So settle down. I said call out the blood of Jesus. Get rid of condemnation.

10:51 You confess, clear it and that’s it. Now let these people be. Jesus decides.

10:58 And don’t say Jesus. I leave it to Jesus and go and intervene there. Intervene.

11:03 You go and do your own thing there. No, leave them. Leave them.

11:07 And then you see the game, the game is not over. Jesus Christ will never leave you or forsake you. His word he will complete when he said, if you love him and if you believe in him, you and your household shall be saved.

11:22 Start hanging on to that. Yeah, but you see this boy getting all kinds of problems, messing up. Something is happening.

11:29 The devil, stealing, killing and destroying. Maybe sick, maybe falling dead, maybe accident, this and that. You continue praying to Jesus Christ for this fellow to be safe, Safe, safe, safe.

11:37 That’s all your prayer is. But don’t ask for, oh this worldly thing. But if you’re looking at the worldly Thing that the boy will grow so prosperous in this world.

11:45 He will prosper here, he will prosper there. His career will be big. If you are looking at all that, you have a problem.

11:51 Why you have a problem? Because you are not actually looking at the great thing, the salvation. You yourself are carnal. You yourself looking on the earthly things.

12:03 Yes. When this self turned to Christ, all things abundant life were given. So until then you focus on Jesus Christ to save them.

12:14 Not about your thinking about how well they will do on life, how to do anything in life. The devil came to steal, kill and destroy. Even they become all kinds of earnings and this and that all will be stolen.

12:25 How do I know this? It happened to me. Full stop. Go and read my testimony.

12:31 There it happened to me. So anybody does not want to take responsibility for their sins will suffer. So in the suffering Jesus will.

12:41 Only in the suffering they will turn. Because they are so haughty, prideful, like they are nothing. They blame the parents only.

12:49 Who do you think they are? They don’t know the word of God. They don’t want know the word of God. They want their own way.

12:57 So thank Jesus Christ. Now the second part. After this I’m going to do how to pray and things like that for this.

13:05 But you first surrender this boy to Jesus Christ completely. And don’t turn back. Don’t surrender and start looking back.

13:15 You do his will, you continue doing his will. Otherwise you have a problem. You will have a problem because then you are not loving Jesus Christ.

13:23 You are not trusting Jesus Christ. You are more bothered about your son. Anyone loving father, mother, brother, sister, husband, wife, son and all that.

13:30 Hey, trouble. Love Jesus Christ. He’s a creator.

13:35 Everybody else, even the son he was given, you are a trustee. You don’t own him. He belongs to God because God created him.

13:44 Please. Thank you Father. In Jesus name, Amen.